Touching different parts of the body can drive a girl crazy and even provoke strong love and passion. And sometimes they can infuriate her and cause the only desire - never to meet the person who touched her again. Therefore, all members of the stronger sex should know how to properly touch a girl in order to please her.
First, in order to understand how you can touch a girl, you need to know her character and preferences. Some people like men with a hot temperament, others - affectionate and gentle. In any case, almost no girl will give up light and almost airy touches in favor of impetuous and rough caresses. They may be appropriate in a moment of intense passion, but not in foreplay.
Girls love to be admired, loved, cared for. That is why they like long and gentle caresses and touches so much, regardless of the part of the body that the guy touches. Tenderness is the basis of technique and a guarantee that the girl will be delighted. If you start touching a girl's butt as if you were kneading dough, she might at best send you to study at a culinary college. The same applies to fondling the breasts, thighs and especially the genitals. Any rudeness regarding a given zone can discourage sexual desire not only for the whole evening, but forever - with a specific guy.
Where can you touch a girl
This question can be answered “everywhere”, the main thing is to know how to caress individual parts of a girl's body. Along with this, there are such sensitive points on the female body, touching which gives them special pleasure. Therefore, the most important of them should be considered:
- The back of the head and neck;
- Hips;
- Lower back;
- Chest.
With ears, it is important not to overdo it and limit yourself to light touches. The neck and the back of the head should be stroked gently, smoothly passing to the scalp, lightly sipping the hair roots. This massage is also great for relaxing.
The inner thighs and lower back are very sensitive to caresses, since these areas have the most delicate skin. Slowly run your fingertips up and down these areas.
The breast is almost the main erogenous zone in women after the genitals. And, contrary to popular belief, not only the nipple area is sensitive, but the entire mammary gland. Therefore, breast caresses should be gentle and passionate at the same time. To do this, it is best to touch this area with your entire palm, slightly squeezing and releasing the nipples.
How to touch a girl “by accident”
If you want to touch a girl, but do not have a good reason for this in the form of even a hint of a relationship, you can offer to tell fortunes by her hand. In most cases, curiosity prevails and the girl agrees. This is your chance to give her the pleasant sensation of touching her palms and wrists.
You can offer to give her a massage. This is the best way to satisfy your desire to touch the female body and at the same time please the girl herself. You can start with a head massage, smoothly move to the back of the head and neck, and then move on to more determined caresses.
Of course, you can also depict accidental touching, for example, on public transport or helping a girl to do some physical exercise. It's also a good idea to suggest teaching her how to play tennis or billiards. Such games make it possible to touch the female body and at the same time pretend that this is required by the exercise process.
The ability to touch a girl, or, as the pickupers say, “kinesthetic”, is one of the most important moments in the transition from purely companionship to something deeper and more intimate. Agree, if you do not touch the girl, then your relationship will never come to kissing and sex. Touching is the first step towards intimacy! In this article we will tell you how to properly touch a girl and what tricks you can use while doing this.
Most often, the guy himself should be active and start touching the girl. Girls are naturally more fearful and a young man should remove their fears with his confidence. That is, you have to play the first violin. If your companion sympathizes with you, then she will also get involved in the process. But the beginning and general course of the game is usually yours.
Do everything on time
All people have intimate area... Everyone has!!! When a stranger invades this area, there is a feeling of discomfort. Therefore, you should not immediately grab the girl and kiss her lips. Not many will understand this. You need to do everything gradually so that she understands that you are yours, you can be let in closer. You need to start with fleeting touches and then smoothly move on to closer contacts. This way you will earn trust and be able to touch your girlfriend without hindrance in the future.
Pick-ups often break off precisely because they are in too much of a hurry. They try to actively touch and kiss the girl right from the moment they start dating. But this is unnatural behavior and it most often causes alertness on a subconscious level! Your task is the opposite - to gain trust. So if you want to build a relationship of trust, proceed smoothly. Apply progressively more intimate touch.
There is no need to delay the first contact either. It is best to start your acquaintance with a handshake. Introduced himself, held out his hand, she shook it. That's all. This gesture is the norm in our society, it is not defiant, but serves to establish trust between you. You can always use a handshake, it is even better not just to shake your hand, but to smile at the same time.
The main rule - do not strain
There is one rule: The main thing is not to strain. It is necessary not only to grab all parts of the body without any preparation ... So that your touches do not cause suspicion, you need to find a reason for them!
That is, if you wanted to hold the girl's hand, and you just take her hand, you can cause tension on her part. She will start thinking, "What is this, why is it necessary, what does he want?" To bypass the defense use the following maneuver: when you take your hand, say: "Oh, what beautiful rings you have, show me." That's it, the focus has shifted to rings. She will give you her hand without suspicion. You got around her concerns by asking a specific and pertinent question. You twist your hand, look at the rings, joke. It's okay.
Moreover, the simpler and dumber the reason, the less suspicion it arouses. In addition, such phrases often give the girl the opportunity to tell or brag something, which in itself promotes rapprochement. You can find many interesting phrases that give access to a particular part of the body. Just highlight something unusual and go for it.
Touching hands
Hand touching is probably the most important level. Women's hands are very sensitive to touch them, this is a serious step forward. Here are some phrases that can accompany a hand-drawing:
- You have a great manicure. Did you do it yourself?
- What beautiful rings you have, show me. Do they mean something?
- What an interesting bracelet? It symbolizes something.
- And you know that a person's fist is like a heart. Let's compare.
- Something my hands are cold. And you have?
Hair
Hair is a special pride of a girl. Everyone, without exception, pays a lot of attention to hair. You also need to touch your hair.
- Praise her hairstyle.
- Touch your hair as if you were brushing something.
- Take a strand and ask about split ends :)
- Smell her hair and tell her that she smells great.
Face
Take care and make her feel like your girlfriend. Erase the non-existent blot from her face, remove the non-existent eyelash, and so on.
Legs
Feet touching is most comfortable when both of you are sitting side by side. Also accompany the touch with simple phrases.
- You touch your feet and say: "Look, what a strange hairstyle the girl has."
Fleeting touches
The touch should be not only targeted, but also, as it were, in passing, accompany your conversation. That is, it should not be that you grabbed your hand, then convulsively grabbed your hair, then your leg. Touch her during the dialogue. Let's say you say: “Now I’ll tell you this” and touch your hand, elbow or knee. Such fleeting touches allow the girl to get used to you. Plus, you'll let her know that you're not just interested in her as a friend.
Touch different parts of the body: fingers, hand, forearm, shoulder, neck, and so on. And each time change the intensity and duration of the touch. Sometimes touch and hold your hand, sometimes just catch it fleetingly, sometimes take it in your hands, and so on. You don't have to grab the girl and hold her tight every time. Treat in a variety of ways.
How to hug a girl?
You can hug a girl when you see that she is striving for you with her body. If she sticks to you when you are sitting next to you, hug without a doubt. She wants it.
If a positive contact has already been established between you, but there is still no strong pull, you can invite the girl to take a photo. Just say, "what a cool view, let me take a picture of you." And then offer a selfie together. Selfies are all the rage right now, so this is a perfectly normal proposal. Well, when you take a photo, hug her.
The most important
In general, in touch, the most important factor is rapport... If you manage to bring a girl to a great mood and positive reactions, then it is not difficult to come up with an excuse for touching. Any of your initiatives will be perceived positively if your girlfriend is good with you.
All girls love confident men. Ideally, you yourself should enjoy the process. If you yourself are cool to touch her, then everything will be fine. Take action, have fun! Believe me, she will be pleased too.
When it comes to seducing girls, touch plays a key role here.... If you don't touch the girl correctly, then sex on the first date will be a rare exception for you, and not a common thing.
Ordinary touching to different parts of the body can interest a girl, provoke love and even dispose to sex for a few minutes. But the wrong touches sharply cause a feeling of dislike, and the girl will no longer want to meet with you again. So what is the science of touch and how to properly touch the ass, chest and lower abdomen of a girl?
How it works?
Have you seen the girls talk? Of course I did. How are the guys? What's the difference? No, we are not talking about the psychological aspects of communication now. Girls touch each other constantly. This is how they establish and maintain contact. Here are two girls walking down the street, holding hands - it's cute. Two guys are walking, joined hands. And what do you think of all this? In the life of a girl, there are much more touches than a man, and therefore more importance is attached to them.Remember one more thing. Nature has laid down that a woman's skin is an order of magnitude more sensitive than men's... This is how we evolved, and our distant ancestors led this way of life. This is also explained by the fact that with high skin sensitivity, girls have a much better pain threshold. Therefore, they are easier to tolerate disease. But with great sensitivity, the skin cry from small cuts.
But what does this flood of terminology and medical knowledge mean to you? The fact that you just need to touch and do it wisely. That is a great tool with which you can evoke certain emotions and desires, but what else do you need?
A universal way?
Many guys are used to thinking that girls are essentially the same, which means that the mechanism of communication, both verbal and non-verbal, should be the same. But no one will give you a guaranteed result. Each girl is a separate person with her own characteristics... One likes it when a guy touches her hair, while the other is infuriated. Therefore, first of all, you need to focus on her character, preferences and other individual characteristics, so as not to spend this night alone.Start over. Some girls prefer temperamental and even rude men, while others prefer affection and care. And there is no need to dance between two fires. In 99% of cases, a girl will like light and almost airy touches. Sharp, impulsive touches are appropriate in bed, and even then closer to the final stage, but not at the moment of acquaintance.
Every girl loves when she is admired, they say tender words. And it works exactly the same with touch. Be gentle and gentle. If, say, during a kiss you start touching a girl's ass, as if kneading dough, then do not be surprised that she will start to pull away. You should not greedily grab intimate places!
Where and how to touch the girl? Booty, chest, or right there?
Each girl, consciously or not, delimits zones for herself where a guy can touch her at a certain stage of the relationship, and where not. Much here depends not so much on preferences as on the real worldview.Start with more accessible areas: arms, shoulders, back, palms... Everyone will like this, and all the girls allow themselves to be touched in these zones, only if you are not disagreeable to her to nausea. If you are sitting in a cafe, try to see her earrings. If you succeed, then know that you are doing well and your sympathy is guaranteed. Remember, if a girl allows her hair to be touched, then she definitely likes you. This is the law!
Guessing when it's time to move on to more explicit caresses, for example, in the lower abdomen or chest, is quite difficult, if not impossible. So just don't be shy. Practice "casual" touches, which then develop into special and distinctly noticeable ones. The girl will not send you immediately after you accidentally touched her breasts or ass, but only if it really looks like an accident. Still, it's best to start with the shoulder. Try to casually touch the upper arm and watch the reaction.
There are also particularly sensitive areas that are specific to each girl. Touching them gives a special pleasure, and this should be used. Usually these are the most commonplace breasts, buttocks and lower abdomen, but there are exceptions, all of this below. 
Consider the main parts of a girl's body that you need to learn to touch correctly:
- back;
- nape;
- inner thighs;
- chest;
- priest;
- inner thighs;
The lower back and inner thighs are especially sensitive to touch. The skin here is very delicate, and therefore it must be treated accordingly. Slowly slide your fingertips up and down.
The chest is generally a serious erogenous zone, which you may not be allowed to reach. Here caress should be not only gentle, but also passionate, it is extremely important to properly touch the girl's breasts. The whole palm is involved. Squeeze and release your nipples. True, it is not worth doing this much. In general, about how to arouse a woman I wrote earlier. In the same place, I recommend to devote a lot of time to the breast.
Not only hands
Remember that you can touch a girl not only with your hands. You are also given by nature other parts of the body that work well, for example, lips, tongue and legs. In this case, it is better to touch with your feet only her legs. And the lips can be used very well. You can kiss her on the lips, on the cheek, on the neck. With the right technique, you can turn a girl on very quickly.
The tongue is not always pleasant to touch, so you need to be as careful with it as possible. You can lick her ear lightly or touch her tongue while kissing. No need to lick your neck or cheek, which is disgusting for many. And there were cases when girls loved these actions. And yet there weren't that many of them.
"Accidental" touches
For many, this is the hardest part of touching. How to properly touch a girl supposedly by accident or how to provoke her to start touching you herself? In general, how to start non-verbal communication? In fact, everything is quite simple here, and there can be a lot of situations.If you are walking around the city, then during some awkward movement you will have a chance to touch her. A simple example is stairs or public transportation. Give her a hand, it will untie your hands a little in relation to her body. You can invite her to read her hand. If you don't have special talents in palmistry, you can just come up with something interesting or funny.
After such an offer, curiosity will prevail, and you will have a great chance to touch her.
The main rule is to make sure that touching the girl has a foundation.You have the opportunity to give the girl an erotic massage ... And it is not at all necessary (although desirable) to be able to do it according to all the rules. All you need to know is the right touch. Start with the hands, go higher and higher, then to the collar zone, back of the head, neck, back. Then you will have the opportunity to move on to more decisive caresses. Gradually descend lower and lower, "accidentally" touch your chest, etc. Further more! You can suggest the girl to do any active rest. It can be billiards, archery, bowling, just playing sports - whatever. The main thing is that this or that occupation gives you access to touch. Try bowling the same way - it works great!
Seize the moment!
The big difficulty for guys raises the question, when can you start touching a girl? From the first minutes of your meeting! Now you met her, take her hand, hug her, say something in your ear. This is already the beginning of touching, which creates the preconditions for the further development of the evening. Remember, the sooner you touch her, the faster you will have sex!If you went with a girl to a cafe or restaurant, then sit not opposite, but next to. At this moment, you can gently touch her with your shoulder, hug her at some moments and even independently come up with a way to bring her to non-verbal communication. A cinema is also perfect for this purpose.
Take her to a horror movie, she will in fear grab your hand or even cuddle up to you all (only if her nerves hold out and you do not look such a coward in her eyes).
Another interesting moment when a girl gives you a signal that you can start touching her is interest. It occurs after about 10-20 minutes of communication. If a girl likes you, she will let you know with loud laughter, active participation in a conversation, and so on. For you, this is a direct signal to action! It remains to check the readiness for contact and start increasing the pace of communication. When she laughs, hold her hand, touch her shoulders. She is unlikely to be against such actions.
In conclusion, I must say that in touching, a lot depends on your mood. If you think that today you will spend the night alone, that you will be refused, that you are a failure. Friend, it will be so. Approach all your actions with a positive attitude, hold your tail with a pistol, and you will succeed! And don't be upset if the first, second, tenth attempt fails. There are still a large number of girls in your city, which means that you have exactly the same number of attempts!
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In fact, most guys have a lot of wrong beliefs in their heads about this topic!
Many guys are sure that only words can seduce a girl. But in fact, seduction is this is your gradual increase in touching the girl, thanks to which there is further physical contact, right up to sex!
And instead of guys thinking about how to touch a girl, they think about something completely different, about how best to talk to her and what is the best question to ask her, but this is complete nonsense!
And so that you understand that this is complete nonsense, I will give you an example:
You have been dating a girl for a long time, and you have 17 dates. And then you decide to accidentally tell her that it’s time to move to a new level.
You say: “Dasha, this is our 17th date, maybe you want to reward me for this pastime? "
So, back to the question “ How to touch a girl correctly?»
Your main task constantly increase the number of touches Gradually and slowly, at the same time it makes no difference what you are talking about and how deep your conversation is!
For example, if you kissed her, then in conversation more flirting will automatically appear... If you touch her butt and she does not run away, then the conversation automatically switches to more intimate topics.
An important rule, if you don't touch a girl, sooner or later she will merge you or make you her friend.
There is a certain touch scale from 0 to 100, where 0 is you have never touched her yetand 100 is sex. So, if you immediately go to 50 on the touch scale and immediately grab her breasts for no apparent reason, although you have never touched her before, then she will slap you in the face and leave you forever.
Therefore, everything must be done correctly!
At first you don't have any touch with your girlfriend, you met, took her phone number. Then you ask her out on a date, at this moment you do not need to be blunt and wait for something, you should immediately start touching the girl.
How to start touching a girl correctly?
When you just met a girl give her your hand right away, in response, she will hold out her own to you and say her name, thereby this will be the very first touch.
When you say goodbye to a girl you can hug her and say that you were very pleased to talk to her.
Now back to your date with a girl, on a date you should only use adequate socially accepted touch... You can give her your hand to walk in the park or get her across the road.
When you came to a cafe with her, you can help her to undress and thus a little hug her from behind... When you approach the table, always sit next to the girl on the same sofa, and do not sit in front of her.
You can also watch her jewelry and touch themasking what it is!
After a while, the girl will get used to your touch and will begin to reach for you herself.
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Going on another date, guys often have to think about this question so that the evening spent with her ends with a pleasant continuation. The subtleties of touching the female body should be of interest not only to young adolescents, but also to adult experienced men. Every representative of the stronger sex should have the art of seduction. This article is devoted to this topic.
It doesn't matter which place you choose for your date - a club, a restaurant or a house. The main means of arousal is touch, which is a separate type of contact. If the touch is done correctly, then you can excite any girl and give her great pleasure.
At what point can you touch a girl?
If you invited a girl to spend the evening at the club, then you can safely proceed with the action from the very beginning of the date. For a start, you can hug her or whisper something affectionate in her ear. This tactic will be perceived quite adequately. If your date will be in a restaurant or cafe, you need to wait a little with touching.
Your first task will be to sit next to the girl. It will be possible to start touching only when the girl begins to show interest. This period may not last long, about 20 minutes, and sometimes it may take two hours. Therefore, be patient. If positive emotions appear on the part of the girl, and she makes it clear that she likes you, you can start touching, making her laugh.
How should touching be?
If your joke makes the girl laugh, at this moment you can not only hug her, but also go to a kiss on the lips. This is the best way to start creating skin contact and the best way to know how to touch a girl.
Under any conditions, you can resort to touch only in cases when it will be pleasant for yourself. At the slightest feeling of discomfort from touching a woman, it is better to refuse, since the girl will feel the same and the outcome will be undesirable for two.
Three stages of touching can be distinguished, and the transition to the next stage should occur gradually.
At the first stage only initial touches are allowed, which the girl should perceive as casual. This can be, for example, a light whisper in your ear. This action is quite intimate, as there are erogenous zones on the ears. Therefore, even a light touch to the ear can instantly turn a girl on.
Second phase consists of advanced touching, including playing with the girl's hands. You just need to take a graceful girlish palm in your hand, stroke the outside of the palm or the inside with your thumb. The area of \u200b\u200bthe hand, from the wrist to the elbow, is also highly sensitive.
You can go to such touches by imitating fortune telling in the palm of your hand. You can tell the girl that your hands are very similar, and just do not let go of her palm.
The joke that made the girl laugh can end with a hug. It will be better if you hug the girl not by the waist, but by the shoulders. In this case, you can also stroke the back and neck, which also has a stimulating effect on the girl. After the neck, you can massage the hair on the back of your head with your hands, where another erogenous zone is located.
All these touches should occur during a conversation with a companion. However, sharp topics should be avoided; you should try to relax the girl as much as possible. By and large, the topic of communication will not be so important, since all the girl's attention will be focused on sensations.
Feet stroking also stimulates women. The popliteal areas and the outer thighs are erogenous. But these touches will already be more frank. They can be used only if the girl reacted positively to the touch of the first two stages. Remember that you should also be relaxed when touching the girl.
As a result of successfully performing advanced touches, the girl will completely relax and begin to quickly become aroused.
The moment of onset of arousal is difficult to determine. If the girl begins to bend under the influence of your touch, to cuddle up to you, then you can be sure that she is already aroused. The onset of arousal may also be evidenced by gleam in the eyes, deeper breathing with a slightly open mouth and other reactions.
All of these manifestations are clear signs of arousal. However, it is not so easy to notice these reactions in a real situation. In order not to get lost in doubts, you can use another auxiliary method. If a girl allows you to leave your hands on her body, then your touching brings her pleasure. In this case, you can move on to a more advanced type of touch.
Frank affection
This kind of touching has a very powerful stimulating effect. These are different types of kisses, including kisses on the neck and sucking. At this stage, you can also suck or lick the girl's ears, stroke the inner thighs, located in close proximity to the groin. In addition, you can caress your breasts through your clothes and running your hands under it, rub the area between your legs over your clothes.
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Such frank touches will cause a girl's strong arousal, and you can safely count on making love with her after the end of the first date. Now you know how to properly touch a girl and all the secrets of the art of touching a girl, you just have to make sure of the effectiveness of their action in practice. If you need to find out, look and remember what needs to be done in what order.
