1. Don't kiss her at the beginning. When men do not kiss a woman on the lips and go straight to erogenous zones, girlfriends perceive it as if they are being paid by the hour and therefore rush, skipping over what they do not consider important. A passionate kiss is an integral part of foreplay.
2. It is hard to breathe in her ear.Once at school, someone told you that girls like it. But hello, there is a difference between erotic breathing in the ear and the way people blow in an attempt to put out the candles on the cake on their 50th birthday. It is unpleasant.
3. Don't shave. When you look like a porcupine with your protruding stubble and scratch a girl's face and thighs, she doesn't like it. Amazing, huh? And the way she turns her head from side to side is not passion, she is trying to avoid the painful touch of the stubble.
4. Squeeze her breasts. Most men do this much like housewives testing a watermelon for maturity. You have to be gentle and careful.
5. Bite her nipples. Why do men bite their friends with such frenzy? The nipples are very sensitive. No need to bite or pinch them. Better to lick.
6. Unscrew the nipples. Stop twisting her nipples with your thumb and forefinger as if you were tuning the radio! Transfer your attention to the whole chest, do not concentrate on individual points.
7. Ignore the rest of the body. Dudes are often mistaken in thinking that the female body map contains only three objects: the Western and Eastern Pectoral Hills and the Great Tunnel. But there are still a lot of areas that people for some reason ignore, in a hurry to visit this short list of attractions. Pay attention to them at last!
8. Hands get confused. If you are not very dexterous with your hands and you can get your fingers tangled in her panties, this does not entail anything pleasant for her. Just ask her to take them off. Or take them off yourself.
9. Don't take a condom. Somehow it so happened that this is considered a male concern. You put it on - you take care of it.
10. Attack the clitoris. Direct and strong pressure is very unpleasant, so gently move your fingers up and down.
11. Stop for a break. Women, unlike us, cannot continue where they left off. So if she is about to finish, do not slow down and do everything in your power, at any cost!
12. It's embarrassing to undress her. Women hate looking stupid. But if you take off her sweater and it gets stuck on her head - that's really stupid. Be gallant and dexterous, do not act like a child.
13. Pull underwear up to her ears during foreplay. Yes, pushing a little through the panties is sexy. And to pull them with great force so that they reach the navel - this is no longer there.
14. Be obsessed with the vagina. Most dudes are up to the task of finding the clitoris without a map, but they still think the vagina is the most important thing in sex. In principle, of course, important. But you have to be careful: the main thing here is not to hurt. It is best to concentrate on the clitoris during foreplay, and only then gently insert your finger inside - if she likes it.
15. Massage is too hard. When you want to give her an erotic relaxing massage, you do not need to use force to create a suitable mood.
16. To undress prematurely. Do not rush things by hurrying to throw off your clothes. Let her take at least a couple of steps towards you - even if she just unfastens a couple of buttons.
17. Take off your panties first. The worst look for a man is when he is in socks and underpants. Take off your socks forward.
18. Hurry up. When you've just started having sex, you don't have to jump right into super speeds - she just won't like it. Start with simple, rhythmic, but not fast movements.
19. Be too assertive. If you try very hard and stick your friend in it as deeply as possible, it is not always pleasant - you can even hurt. Everything in moderation, dude!
20. To cum too quickly. This is the fear of any bro. And not without reason. If there’s nothing you can do about it, come up with a backup plan so that your girlfriend will also enjoy it.
21. Don't cum too long. It may seem strange to you, but if for you not cumming for an hour means good sex, then for her, it may be vaginal numbness. For such an occasion, at least buy new curtains so that she has something to have fun while you pose as a marathon runner.
22. Asking if she's finished. In fact, you yourself will be able to understand. But if you cannot find it out, you better not ask anyway.
23. Having oral sex is too gentle. Don't act like a giant cat that has been poured into milk. Increase the speed, decrease the amplitude, concentrate on the clitoris.
24. Tilt her head. But we just don't know how else to hint that she use her mouth - so we hope that she simply will not have any other choice. And women, as it turned out, hate it. For such tricks, you can be thrown out of bed altogether. If you want her to use her mouth, use yours - tell her so.
25. Do not warn her that you are coming. The semen tastes like sea water mixed with egg white. Not everyone will like it - the stuff is not for everyone. So if you do oral sex, warn her to be ready for it.
26. Move during orgasm. Again, when you are having oral sex, there is no need to do any frictions when you cum. She will do everything herself. Just lie down. And don't grab her by the head.
27. Follow the experience of pornophiles.In porn, women kind of like it when they cum. In real life, this only adds to the hassle: you urgently need to wash the thing.
28. Make her jump on her for ages. Asking her to be on top is a normal thing. Relaxing while she does all the work isn't cool anymore. Let her rest.
29. Try to have anal sex with her and pretend it happened by accident. This is how women begin to think that you do not understand at all what and where to stick. If you want to have anal sex, talk about it first. Don't say, "Oh, I messed up" or "Oh, I got drunk."
30. Take pictures. When the type asks: "Can I take a picture of you?", The girl hears the continuation of the phrase: "... to show your dudes." Well, I would be ashamed.
31. Don't be fancy. Here, different things will do: you can pour honey on her back and lick it, use fruits, vegetables, ice or a feather. But hot wax is not and is not.
32. Squish her belly against her belly. There is no less erotic sound in the world.
33. Try stupid postures. If she is, then the thrill is for you, but unless she is a gymnast, don't ask too much of her.
34. Look for her prostate. Note: Stimulating the prostate in a man is a pleasure. And women simply do not have it.
35. Put sucks. Yes, we all remember, it's nice - when you are careful and no traces remain. But then hiding behind scarves and collars is not the most interesting thing. And even in the summer.
37. Dirty talk. It’s like you’re an old man calling sex on the phone. If she wants dirty talk, you'll be the first to know.
38. Don't care if she ends up. Who's going to take care of that? Do everything in your power - and she will answer you in kind.
39. Press her to the bed. Men tend to be heavier than women. Imagine what it would be like to lie under someone's weight and turn blue.
40. Thank her. Never thank the woman you have sex with. The bedroom is not your dining room.
Health
Perhaps it is the breast that is the most controversial aspect of the criterion of female beauty.
3. Too hard love joys
Some women like tougher caresses. For example, they get turned on when a partner bites their breasts.
However, be careful! Such bites can be very dangerous for the health of a woman's breasts. They can hurt her as well as wearing a tight bra.
Disruption in the tissues can lead to potential problems.
Therefore, in the bedroom, try not to overplay with harsh caresses.
Is nipple piercing dangerous?
4. Nipple piercings
Piercing, in principle, is potentially dangerous in that when you pierce any part of the body, there is a very high risk of infection and infection.
But a puncture on the nipple is especially dangerous because of its proximity to the lymphatic system. This allows harmful bacteria to enter the bloodstream and spread into the female body.
Why is smoking dangerous?
5. Smoking
The harsh chemicals that a person breathes into himself with every cigarette smokes harm the lungs.
But few people know that these harmful elements, penetrating the skin, lead to premature aging not only of the whole organism, but also of the female breast in particular.
Cigarettes kill collagen and elastin, which in turn causes it to sag. The breast permanently loses its natural elasticity.
Therefore, the conclusion will be disappointing: the more a woman smokes, the less attractive her breasts become.
6. Running and Exercise Without a Sports Bra
Going out for a run or getting into the gym without a sports bra exposes her breasts to potential danger.
Even if she is the owner of modest small forms, it is imperative to wear a special sports bra.
On a run, the breasts not fixed by the bra bounce. This can form scar tissue, which in turn can lead to serious illness.
7. Sleep face down
Rumors have it that sleeping face down makes your chest shrink. However, it is not. Of course, if it does not decrease.
But the pressure on this part of the body at night can indeed change the shape of the breasts over time.
It is best to take a pillow and prop it up against your chest, or sleep on your side.
Having coped with the difficulties at the initial stage of feeding, some mothers soon face the problem again - the baby bites the breast. Why does he do this? Usually, babies bite their breasts when their teeth are teething. This is how babies try to relieve itchy gums. From about three months of age, babies begin to play with their mother's breast, developing new skills. Naturally, mothers have a question - how to wean the baby from biting during feeding, while maintaining breastfeeding?
Why does a baby bite a nipple while feeding - reasons
Young children who have not yet erupted can bite the nipple while feeding, squeezing it with their gums. Psychologists say that kids get to know the world around them in this way, show curiosity. They wonder what happens if they press their mother's breasts well - will they take it away or not? This interest is closely related to the psycho-emotional development of the child.
Babies as young as three months old can bite on the nipple even if they are hungry. This is how they play with their breasts. During the game, the kids look at their mother, smile at her, while biting the nipple and moving it from side to side. These actions help the child learn new skills. He masters the movements of the lips and tongue. If your child behaves this way, be sure - he is just having fun. Don't worry if your milk doesn't taste good or isn't enough.
What should mom do to prevent the baby from biting?
You need to show the baby that you do not like this behavior. This can be done by taking off the breast for a short time. At the same time, you need to make a stern face and calmly but seriously say: “You can't! Mom is in pain because of the bite, so Dima (Yanya) will no longer receive milk. ” Despite the crumbs' dissatisfaction, try not to breastfeed him for at least 10-15 minutes. Repeat this every time. After a while (two or three times), the child will understand what happens after he bites his mother's breast: the mother is unhappy, the breast is not available. The toddler is not satisfied with both of these options, so he will try not to bite you again! It happens that the nipple is bitten to blood. In this case, you should not give a sick breast to the baby until the blood coagulates and turns into a scratch (otherwise the baby will swallow your blood, which is not good).
Teeth are coming through
The baby does not want to eat
If the baby is already full and no longer wants to suckle, he can simply play with it. According to some mothers, their babies begin to nibble on the nipple when the milk in the breast runs out. Sometimes the child does this when he falls asleep or, carried away by something, turns his head to the side.
Also, the baby may bite the breast due to lack of milk, the baby has a desire to experiment with mother's reaction and attract attention, due to the constant use of rubber pacifiers and nipples.
How should mom react when baby bites the breast?
If the baby bit his mother's nipple for the first time, he does not understand what he did. However, mom at this moment feels pain. Her natural reaction is to scream or abruptly pull the nipple out of the child's mouth, she can scream at the child and scold him (this is useless, he is not to blame and did not bite you on purpose). Although it is quite difficult to restrain oneself, such behavior when biting the breast of a child should not be tolerated in any case. Hearing the cry of the mother, the baby can be very frightened, and then completely abandon the breast. It is also impossible to abruptly remove the nipple from the baby's mouth, such a movement can easily injure the skin even more than with a bite. If the baby squeezed the nipple with his teeth, you need to try to release the breast as soon as possible.
How to release the breast if the baby has bitten it?
- In no case pull the nipple out - there is a high risk of damaging the skin even more, especially if the child already has several teeth;
- Press the crumb so that it buries its nose in the chest. In this position, it is difficult for the child to breathe and even bite the breast. To take a breath, he will have to open his mouth. Some mothers prefer to gently pinch their baby's nose to open his mouth and release the nipple. Although personally to me (Razakhatskaya Natalya) the method with the little finger seems less stressful;
- Very carefully insert the little finger into the corner of the child's mouth, slowly spread his jaws. Without removing your finger, free your chest;
How to stop your baby from biting the breast while feeding
To stop all the baby's attempts to bite while feeding, the mother needs to show him that it is impossible to play with the breast. Try a few of the techniques below.
The child is most afraid of being left without a mother's breast. This fact should be used to stop all attempts to bite the nipple while sucking. If the baby has bitten you, take the breast away from him, look him sternly in the eyes, calmly say the word “no” or “no”. The child may not understand the lesson the first time, but if this happens again and again, he will remember the actions repeated by the mother - if he bites, he loses his breast.
When the baby, despite your “no,” continues to play with the nipple, biting it over and over again, remove the breast from him and place him on the crib. Having lost his chest for a few minutes, the baby will realize that his mother did not like his behavior.
If he asks for a breast again, apply again. If it bites, we put it off, explain it and leave the room. This should also be done calmly, without strong emotions. Thus, we show that we do not want to communicate when the child behaves this way. In a minute we return, calm down, offer a breast. If he starts crying a lot, you can immediately go in, pick up, calm down, but nevertheless do it without feeling guilty, with inner confidence in your righteousness.
But be prepared for the fact that in a few days the child will want to once again make sure of the seriousness of your intentions. It will be necessary to try to remember and repeat exactly the same reaction, so that the child becomes bored of experimenting in this direction 🙂
For children from one year old who already realize that they hurt their mother by biting her on the chest, a method based on praise is suitable. After each feeding, which was without bites, show the baby that you are happy - hug, kiss and praise him for good behavior.
Often, at the same time as episodes of breast biting, the child begins to fiddle with the second breast during feeding, as well as pinch the mother, pull her nose, hair and other places where he can reach. These additional movements of the child are unpleasant for the mother, so they can and should be dealt with as well. If such manifestations are not stopped in time, you can reach absurd situations. On one of the forums devoted to this issue, I read that some baby ate his breast only if during feeding he was allowed to roll a small car on his mother's body. I can imagine how “comfortable” my mother felt at the same time ... And it’s immediately clear who in this family dictates the rules. Who comes out the winner in a conflict of interests. Who, after all, is the leader of the pack.
In another family I know, a girl used to fall asleep, fiddling with her mother's elbow. Breastfeeding is long over, but the elbow is still there. To fall asleep, a child needs to fiddle with someone's elbow. In my opinion, this is an already formed "bad habit" such as thumb sucking or nail biting. As you know, it is very difficult for children to get rid of these habits, so it is much better to prevent their occurrence.
The reaction to the undesirable actions of the child should not be as emotionally vivid as with the bite (after all, it doesn't hurt you, so you shouldn't exaggerate). But the method of weaning from these habits is similar: we remove the breasts and explain why. Another way (helped me) is to hold the baby by the hand while feeding. Let him play with his fingers quietly, this will help calm down. In any case, do not try to follow the child's lead, after all, you are still controlling him, and not he you.
Watch your baby when you feed him. If he is already full or starting to fall asleep, remove the breast. This will help prevent unnecessary bites. Over time, the baby will understand that this part of the mother's body is not intended for play. Just be patient, you will succeed!
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Video consultation: What to do if the baby bites the breast?
Neberdina Svetlana Nikolaevna, breastfeeding specialist. Work experience as a GW consultant for 10 years. Describes breast biting while nursing:
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The baby bites the breast (nipple) while feeding. What are the reasons for biting a child? Does the baby have to bite the breast if his teeth are teething? How to eliminate the causes of baby biting on the nipple? How to wean a baby from biting the breast while feeding. What to do with a nipple injury?
